For what seems like the billionth time last night I was up alone.  I live with my kids and the Mom of the girls, but by 930 the house is quiet.  The kids watch you tube before they go to bed.  Every now and then I watch with them, but I would love to watch an adult TV show or movie sometime.  But watching alone is boring.  I want someone to share the experience with me.

Reading alone is OK -- I do a lot of it.

Anyhow, about 1030, Carol got up to complain -- she's stressed out about everything. Can't put any of it away.  She is mad that I have factored some leisure time into the weekend - golf lessons for me and Max.  She just sees tasks, tasks, tasks.

I need to accept that this is the way it is, but I long for better.

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